Howdy Bert:
I'm back. Where are you located? Tell us more about your car. Is it a daily driver? or a fair weather weekend Joyride? What have you done with it so far?
In the mean time, think about this. It doesn't work best to think of performance increase as simply replacing parts. Yes, parts are included, but to be most effective they must work together. All of your stock parts were assembled by Ford engineers to offer reasonable performance, dependability, good economy and all in a low emmissions package. Any changes should be added with that in mind, or plan to change the whole picture. Now, don't get me wrong. You could buy a Weber and an adapter to bolt on for a mild increase in performance, but know that you'd have to adapt throttle linkage, worry about hood clearance, fuel lines and air cleaners. The swap would likely require carb tuning to get the most out of it with your existing parts. It's a journey. Are you ready for a journey.
Let me recommend that you take some time to read here deeply, and ask lots of questions. At the same time assess what you have and get to know it. The stock '81 carb is a Holley #1946. It doesn't offer much in the way of tuneability, but can benefit from a good cleaning. You could also learn to tune it to achieve the highest vacuum readings. That and the increase in initial advance I mentioned above will give you a noticeable improvement in feel. The ignition advance and the vacuum tune will require the use of a timing light and a vacuum guage. Both relatively cheap, but useful. If you car has the quick burn catalitic system adding dual exhaust will not get you "a V8 sound". So is that the place you want to start? Replacing the stock muffler with a turbo type may be helpful and not too expensive.
After the tune and lots of reading, I'd recommend the head rebuild. Done right it would restore lost compression ratio and increase flow. Start checking the machine shops in your area for one that is interested in your project, and willing to work with you. You'll be specifying a three angle performance valve job, back cutting the intake valves and specifying a mill cut of .075"- .025" to compensate for the difference in the thickness of the modern head gaskets that will replace the stock OEM steel shim gasket that is in there now, and .50" to get the chambers down to 52 CCs- the same as a '66 head.
You will be amazed at the difference this will make. But, it is also the time to carefully consider all of your carb options to replace the #1946 Holley. It is rated at aproximately 185 cfm. A bigger one barrel, machine for a direct mount two barrel, or multi carbs are options, each with advantages and burdens to consider.
The cam, lifters and timing set would need to be considered as part of a block rebuild- More than $800. But That's another story.
PS- check the build code for what rear gear ratio you currently have. Oh ya, and what trans?
Let's hear from you.
Adios, David