I would worry about any single answer saying how far to deck YOUR block to get to a particular squish-height.
Block dimensions vary, piston compression heights (from pin to top) can vary, rod lengths can vary, crankpin stroke can vary. Sometimes the crankpins are not evenly "clocked." If you want to see all of these examples in their full, sloppy glory, try blueprinting an older Mopar!! I think you need to take measurements.
If you are doing a full rebuild, you can mix and match short and long components to get to fairly even assembled heights. And I don't know that you can avoid tearing down the engine, because your machinist might balk at putting an assembled shortblock on his machinery just to mill the deck. In any case, I would Think (now, correct me if I'm wrong) that you need to ascertain the amount of material you want to take off the deck by an ancient hot-rodders technique called claying the pistons.
Pull the head and clean things up. Take a small pieces of modelling clay and roll them out into cylinders about 1/8-3/16" diameter. Affix these to the squish areas of the head, about 1/8" in from the outer edge. With your fingertip, wipe a little oil on the piston edges so the won't stick to the clay. Very carefully, with a helper, set the head on the block, with gasket, and torque it fairly close to the final torque specs. Manually turn the engine over one full turn.
Take the head off, carefully, and set it upside down. Take a razor blade and cut through the middle of one of your squished clay cylinders. Peal off half of the clay. What remains on the head is a cross-section of clay that you can very gingerly measure with the depth probe on the back end of your dial calipers. Do this on all cylinders, and write it down.
The smallest reading, which shows that piston being closest to the head, is the reading you have to work with. Subtract .042" if you are conservative, or .035" if you are bold, from that reading, and the remainder is the amount that needs to be milled off your block.
That's how I do it, but I taught myself, so maybe there are better ways.