8) you want to make the flange from 3/8" thick steel for best results. what a lot of guys do is take an exhaust gasket to a metal shop and have them cut a flange for them, usually on a laser cutter. if you do this, make sure the gasket lines up properly, otherwise make your own template from a header flange.
when you weld the tube stubs to the flange, weld on the head side of the flange to make sure there are no leaks. there are two reasons for this;
1: you can build up a bead that can be machined down with a slight ledge to increase the sealing ability against the gasket
2: you can make sure there are no pinholes that will cause problems later on.
when yes decide on what size tube you are going to use, contact any of the various header kit manufacturers for tubing in various bends already done, and centering rings so that you can get the tube where you want it, and then tack it in place without having to have three hands, or more, to hold the tube and do the tack weld.