Wagon or ute 2.77/2.92/3.23:1 diffs can take a bit of hard yakka. They are up to a wild 302. But they are no 9" er, and some are not even 7 and 7/8 inch diffs! I've seen a few 7.625" 3.08:1 diffs used in the Falcons and Holdens before 1996 which were not up to it! If its gonna be leant on hard, then you need a four pinion post 96 ute diff.
The axle has a 1527 mm track, not 1485mm, so it will need different backspacing on the wheels. You can swap over to XD-XG control arms at the front, and get a track increase. The hydratrack is a very competent BTR diff, which was basically EL GT spec. With its 28 spline axles and disc brakes, it may be found in either 3.27 or 3.45:1 form in the 96 on Outbacks, XG XR6, XH XR8 or as an option on some of the Longreaches. The real trick is paying up and getting the whole thing. Its bomb proof!
Please, if you going to really burn hides, get a 9" fully sorted to what was recommended above. I've seen XD-XF 3.23:1 diffs used behind 300+ hp VG30ETNissan V6's in a mates Escort, but it eventually broke! The best diff is one you'll never have to touch. A good XE diff is still normally only 25 spline, and most are two pinion open wheelers with cone clutches which go on holiday after a few hard torch-ups. It's never had any more than 250 lb-ft hammering it. The 351 XE's got four pinion Limited Slip diffs, and about 305 lb-ft to contend with.
Most Salibury BW 78's are not hot 351 material...except the post 96 stuff. By then, Ford and Holden got its act together.