I went out to look at all my head bolts from the last six engines I took apart, from two original C6's to two D8's. Except for the one bolt in front that is used as a ground stud, all the rest were the same. No skinny studs.
Then I looked at several heads. There is not any appreciable difference between a C6, a C9, a D3, or a D8 in the oil passage in the head. I poked a thin rod thru the oil passage to the rear pedestal and they all ended right at the base of the head in the vicinity of the threads.
So, in other words, if you were to relieve a bolt to flow more oil, it would have to be done right where the threads begin. A skinnier bolt from the thread up would make no difference. One thing you might do to increase flow is to enlarge the left rear head bolt hole to 1/2" as far up as the oil passage, or use a Dremel or small file to slightly enlarge the hole up to the oil passage.
I don't have any rocker shafts on hand to look at right now, but IIRC, the rear pedestal is different. The passage surrounding that bolt is larger to flow oil up and into the shaft. If those got mixed up, you might have an oiling problem. Also, I looked at all the shaft bolts I had, and they were all the same.
Looking at the oil passage on the bottom of the head, I can see where if you milled a LOT off the head, say more than .060", you might mill the passage very small and shoud probably try to enlarge that a bit, although I have milled a lot of heads that much and have never really noticed an oiling problem.