HowdyZZ:
A spark plug will last as long as the materials in it function as planned. Properly tuned, correct heat range, manufactured to specifications and made of quality materials, the typical $1.69 spark plug will last indefinitely.
The typical plug usually deterioates over time due to carbon build up, oil fouling, preignition, heat, gas contaminants. Usually the electrode wears away. VERY few mechanics working today even know about sand blasting and regapping plugs. If the book says, " change plugs ever 10,000" They change them and never question what condition the old one are in.
Today's engines, with computerize fuel management systems are schedules to go 50,000 on a plug change. These plugs do have some upgrade materials in them.
In your case, if you plugs are clean and nice and within a .001" of set gap, try going two month between check. No point in wearing them out sand blasting them. On a clean running engine, checking and regapping the plugs twice a year is adequate. If you want to try someting, try running a one step hotter plug in the winter month, for quicker starting, cleaner running through the choke cycle.
That's my 2 cents.
Adios, David