Alright so its all back together. I adjusted the valves a little different this time hoping to get somewhere and nothing has changed, leading me to believe this is not a head issue what so ever. At this point I have:
Had the head vacuum checked and repaired= Valve seats and valves fixed, Carb adapter and EGR block off fixed. Now the head holds 25inHg. Great.
New Schneider springs to match the cam (it feels more powerful on the top end now).
4.0 V6 retainers. Much shorter, make the spring sit higher but at the proper height, and overall sit higher on the valve. No more valve seal woes.
I adjusted the valves by lifting up and down on the pushrod till it no longer wiggled up and down, then turned quarter turn. As compared to how I did it before they are much looser (ie pushrod still turns).
The car still has fluctuation in vacuum and wants to run rich at idle, 12-12.5. I'm still running 54 jets in the carb. The idle mixture screws are turned out like 3+ turns. The car wont even run at 1.5 turns out. At cruise around 30-40 she wants to run 16. At 60 in 5th she runs 14.7ish. At WOT she wants to run 13.3 sometimes a little leaner. When compression braking, it goes lean like 18+. Its a slow creep though. It starts to backfire bad when it does this. When compression braking and then putting the clutch in, it will sputter a little (goes lean). When the motor is still kinda cold it just dies.
The vacuum is weird. It'll hold steady for a bit, then it'll drop. Then come back up. Then i can rev it for a min, it'll stay higher for a min then slowly ease back into the 16 inHg it pulls.
Plugs are gapped at .050". They were .040 and I have run them at .045" with no change.
At this point, my money is 100% on the carb. The head is mint as far as I can tell. Being checked and good parts all in it. The DUI is from Bill, he does good stuff and I don't feel like this is it. The carb i bought from a dude with it on a shelf sitting outside. The only possible other thing maybe is the PCV causing too big of a vacuum leak. Its a NOS one from 1970. I put my thumb over it earlier and the idle dropped a lot, like maybe 150, 200rpm. Possibly it? I'll try running without the PCV and try that but if not, its gotta be the carb.
Any ideas?
Thanks guys
Ryan