cfm, you may have no choice but to tear the carb down and rebuild it. Take it apart and clean it all out. Did I read somewhere up the thread that you said it sat for a long time out of the car, and you just put it in and fired it up? That disintegrated O ring doesn't sound like a good sign to me.
I rebuilt the Holley carb on my 'mont when I first got it, and had some driveability problems to sort out after that. Wouldn't idle, bogged, no throttle response, etc. I was extra careful when I had done the rebuild, cleaned everything and made sure the work area was free of dirt.
Long story short, I took the carb back off the car and found a piece of lint (yeh, lint) in one of the passages. I got a can of compressed air and blew out every passage on that carb, and looked it over carefully before I buttoned it up and put it back on. Ran like a champ after that, still does, drive it every day.
It may not be that simple, but at least you'll be doing something constructive, and it'll give you a different focus for a while, to rest yer brain. Been there, done that.