Howdy and Welcome

relax you found the best place to be.
I've done some exstensive research in this area, If I were to do it again, I'd go for a torque motor, it's what gets you off the line.
I've been looking at 256/256 .480 with 108* the .480 lift is only be with 1.6 rocker ratio, this is the best of both worlds (on paper)
256 is not aggressive towards HP, but torque, the higher lift will help overall the spectrum, and the 108* helps in HP, then go for a 9.5 CR and you have a mean little six that is decent off the line and a great low rpm torque cruise monster.
if you want little more HP, then by far the 264/264 108* .450 (with 1.5 rocker ratio) is a GREAT cam. but IIRC any cam with 108* won't cut it for you on vacuum. maybe goting for a 112* (112 lowers HP but rasies tq and vacuum) aim for a 9.5 CR
Good Luck
Richard